More Reflections On ‘Social Networking’ and a Shameless Plug

A cou­ple of posts back I went on one of my semi-annual rants about “social net­work­ing” and the fact that the New Media Douchebag con­tin­gent that most pro­motes “social” tech­nol­ogy is the group that least gets it. The group of friends that I men­tioned in that pre­vi­ous post is a great exam­ple of peo­ple using “social net­work­ing” (in their case MySpace) to enhance, rather than replace actual rela­tion­ships. For us, MySpace is basi­cally noth­ing more than a com­mu­nity mes­sage board, where we can post point­less lit­tle mes­sages or coor­di­nate a happy hour. The real rela­tion­ships are based in the real world.

There is another group of friends that I have that are uti­liz­ing “social net­work­ing” (again in the form of MySpace). This group is orthog­o­nal to the first group I men­tioned, but they illus­trate the other way that ser­vices like MySpace and Facebook can actu­ally act to bring peo­ple closer rather than act as a way for mar­keters to gather vast audi­ences. This group is com­prised of peo­ple whom I have know, who I still con­sider friends, but who have drifted out of my life for one rea­son or another. MySpace is giv­ing us a fairly sim­ple way

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Happy Birthday to Me.

Another year with­out being insti­tu­tion­al­ized. Yay me.

Shit Weekend

Well, this week­end was utter shit. Let’s keep the pre­am­ble short and get on to the bitchin’

Part The First, Wherein The Angry Drunk Is Fucked By Bureaucratic Fuckwittery

The first hit came Saturday morn­ing at the Motor Vehicle Department. To pro­vide some back­ground, I do not have a driver’s license. There are rea­sons for this, which I won’t go into now, but the bot­tom line is that I don’t have a license. Now, after a year of twice daily twenty mile bus rides I’ve decided to rec­tify the sit­u­a­tion. So, after much wran­gling to set up a time when some­one with a work­ing vehi­cle can accom­pany me on my quest, I schlepp my weary ass to the MDV Saturday morning.


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Invocation of the Light

Even in the dark­est night there is a Light that shines. A Light that guides us and keeps us and illu­mi­nates that which is Good and Worthy in our­selves. It is the Light that dis­pels fear, and hate, and sor­row. The Light may some­times seem dim; it may even seem to fail entirely; but that is only a fail­ure in our per­cep­tion. The Light is always there, it can­not be extinguished.